For today, an excerpt from Mary Oliver’s “In Blackwater Woods”:
To live in this world
you must be able
to do three things:
to love what is mortal;
to hold itagainst your bones knowing
your own life depends on it;
and, when the time comes to let it go,
to let it go.
Stoics and Buddhists sometimes praise non-attachment as a virtue, and I can see its importance. But I also worry that there is a risk that we lose touch with the valuable things around us in our limited time on this earth.
I like Oliver’s middle ground: fierce, but temporary, attachment.